WOF:
First of all, we just want to say how thrilled
we are that you’re HERE! It’s
been such a difficult year for you health-wise…how
are you doing now?
THELMA: Thank you so
much for your concern and prayers. This past
year has been the most difficult year of
my life. I
am steadily improving. There are still
a few afflictions, but God’s grace has
truly been sufficient for me and my family.
WOF: What
inspired you to write Listen Up, Honey?
THELMA: I was
inspired to write Listen
Up, Honey by jotting down some of the
sayings I remember from my great-grandmother. She
had a word for everything, and her words
were wisdom-words. I learned so much
from her in and around the kitchen as she
cooked and around the house as she went about
her daily activities. I wanted to extend
some wisdom-words and a little more of my
childhood to the audience.
WOF: You
discussed the importance of listening to “the
still small voice of God” – but
a lot of people are afraid the voice they’re
listening to is not necessarily God’s
voice. What advice would you give them?
THELMA: It is essential
for God’s
children to listen to His voice. Some
call it listening to God, hearing from God,
intuition, a feeling or whatever. In
order to hear the voice of God, we must have
a relationship with Him. That relationship
is developed and grows by spending time in
His Word, the Bible, from which we learn more
about His nature, personality, promises and
love; by spending time praying to Him; by spending
time praising Him and asking Him to speak to
us. Then, we need to listen. God’s
voice is seldom loud or interfering. His
voice is quiet, simple, to the point and few
words. What He says can always
be confirmed by what He confirms in the Bible. God
never tells
us to do wrong, harm ourselves or others, disregard
His teachings or be vindictive and retaliate.
You’ll
know it is His voice because you will have
a sense of peace that comforts you, the power
of confidence that builds you up and a depth
of joy that seems unreal to the human spirit
but so real to your inner-person.
Sometimes
He speaks to your heart and mind when you are
not praying. He may speak
through a song, poem, message, thought, billboard,
person, movie, book, rainbow, the radio … He’s not limited in
how He speaks. But whatever
He uses to speak to you, measure what He says
against the enemy who speaks in half truths, negative urgings, hurtful ideas,
mean-spirited suggestions, hateful mannerisms, guilt and shame, fear, dread
and hopelessness. Trust God to be caring and consoling even when He may be
chastising you. God’s
still, small voice is gentle and brings repentance
and love to the hearer.
WOF: In
Chapter 3 – and we should warn people
right now that reading that chapter will make
you HONGRY – you talk about leaving a
legacy. Describe the kind of legacy you want
to leave behind.
THELMA: It is
for sure that each of us leaves a legacy
for our family and friends when we die. The legacy I want to leave
is one that will encourage, inspire, inform,
motivate and empower people to BEE their best. I
want people to know that Jesus loves them and
prove that to them by the way I live, showing
that whatever happens to you in life is not
as important as how you deal with those things. We
have the choice to make life joy-filled or
difficult. I want to leave a legacy of
faith in God, salvation in Jesus, and trust
in the Holy Spirit to lead and guide me to
a victorious life on this earth and a better
life eternally in heaven.
WOF: You
said “there’s no such thing as
failure”. Can you explain that?
THELMA: I’d love
to explain that. Success or failure happens
in the mind. There are some things that
we don’t
do as well as others. For example, I
can’t draw well, but when someone asks
me to draw a bee in their book, I do the best
I can. Failure to me is not trying. There
are some relationships that don’t make
it. But when you examine what you’ve
learned from that relationship, it’s
not a failure ― it’s an opportunity
for improvement. In everything in life,
whether it works the way you dreamed or not,
look for the positives, embrace them, and think
of them as a chapter in your book of life that
has taught you how to live better in the next
chapter.
WOF: Why
is it important to praise God in the hard times?
THELMA: It is vitally
important to praise God at all times because
we are commanded to praise Him in the good
times and the bad. Many
victories were won in Bible times when the
people rejoiced. One great story in the
Bible is found in 2 Chronicles 20. Read
it for yourself and see what happened when
the people stopped praying and started praising
God. That same thing can happen to you
today. It happened to me this past year.
WOF: In
the book you tell the story of receiving your
master’s degree. Any chance you’ll
go for a doctorate next?
THELMA: Oh boy! I was sixty-one
years old when I received my Master’s
of Divinity Degree in Pastoral Ministry from
Master’s International School of Divinity
and Graduate School in Evansville, Indiana.
This
coming December I’m receiving an Honorary Doctorate of Divinity Degree
and Ordination from Saint Thomas Christian College and Theological Seminary
in Jacksonville, Florida at age sixty-five. It’s never too late. Always
be a sponge and learn everything you can every
day.
WOF: What’s
the best book you’ve read lately?
THELMA: A Stitch in Time by
Allison Bottke.
WOF: What’s
next in the life of Thelma Wells? As far as
you know…
THELMA: Great question that I
wish I could fully answer for you. I
do know that my conference schedule with Women
of Faith will include speaking fourteen times
rather than thirty. I will be featured
on the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association’s
international television special during the
month of January 2007, along with other television
appearances and radio talk shows. I will
host the Daughters of Zion Leadership Mentoring
Program annual retreat February 8-10 in Dallas,
Texas (it’s open to women everywhere). In
July I will be speaking in Auckland, New Zealand. On
September 1 we will enjoy the annual “Picnic
At The Lake with Thelma”. New books
are being released in early 2007. I’m
expecting God to order my steps. |