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This book grew out of one of your WoF
sketches, didn’t it? What originally
inspired you to focus on this idea?
I was working
on Keeping A Princess Heart
when I began writing about the beauty
of invisibility. A daughter of the king
lives in the invisible kingdom and that
can be hard to grasp. We definitely
live in a “look at me” culture,
and I began considering how the teachings
of Christianity counteract that thinking
at the deepest levels. Christ provides
us with a paradox that goes so far as
to infer that the more we disappear,
the more we will be seen—and
The Invisible Woman was born.
2. How is writing
a book different from writing a dramatic
sketch?
When I am writing a drama
to perform, I focus a lot of energy
on what the character is doing, it’s
all about action. In writing for readers,
I am allowed to focus much more on what
the character is thinking. In a story,
you can describe everything, including
a person’s thought process as
well as their motivation-- in a sketch
you can hardly describe anything, you
have to show it rather than tell it.
That’s the real difference between
the two—neither is easy, but they
are very unique and different.
3. The book is
subtitled A Special Story for Mothers,
and judging from the comments we’ve
heard, a lot of mothers can really relate
to the story. Why is it that mothers,
especially, are prone to feeling invisible?
Mothers are making incredible
sacrifices every day. And a sacrifice,
by its very nature, is almost always
invisible. If people saw and appreciated
everything you did and affirmed you
for it, it wouldn’t really be
a sacrifice, would it? But to keep working
for something you believe in, and doing
things just because they need doing,
is what mothers are all about. So it’s
only natural they are going to feel
invisible a lot.
4. Do you think
this feeling of invisibility only applies
to mothers or do other women experience
it as well?
All women experience this
feeling. If the beauty of invisibility
is found in sacrifice, then every woman
who sacrifices is going to feel invisible
now and again. In her work, or in her
home, or even in relationships, a woman
who puts others ahead of herself in
order to show them love is going to
feel at times like no one sees. I wanted
to help women realize that is normal,
and that to feel invisible means that
she is doing something great, not that
she is really disappearing.
5. One of Charlotte’s
notes reads, “Invisibility is
not inflicted upon me; it is a gift
to help me truly serve.” How does
that work?
In writing the book,
I became convinced that invisibility
is love’s greatest costume, given
to its choicest of servants when they
are truly ready to serve. Invisibility
can increase our effectiveness when
we aren’t caught up in doing things
so the right people see. I think it
was one of the Roosevelts who said something
like"any man can change the world
if he doesn’t want the credit."
Invisibility can also increase our internal
self-worth in that we can know that
our motivation was pure and even sacrificial
in the doing.
6. How can we
help to “illuminate the sacrifices
of others who are invisible to the world”?
When we are suffering
our eyes are open to suffering like
never before. Or when someone we love
has cancer, we begin to see all those
around us who are battling the disease.
So we can point out the sacrifices we
see that are invisible to those around
us. We can shine the spotlight on those
that are truly serving that no one else
sees. Some people think that that might
change things if the world saw, but
for those that serve regardless of who
sees, it won’t change anything,
but will bring deep encouragement and
affirmation.
7. Do you have
a favorite cathedral?
I had the great privilege
of visiting Paris and Florence last
fall and I fell in love with many Cathedrals,
but St. Chappelle really captured my
heart. It’s so small and so delicate
and by size is dwarfed by Notre Dame.
It might even be overlooked on a tour
if it wasn’t for its magnificent
windows. I wrote about them in the book,
but the windows alone took almost a
decade to complete. I don’t know
that the artisans ever saw their creations
in finished form in the cathedral. For
people alive in that age, it was the
Bible in picture form so they could
understand the story and the message
of Christ. So many workers whose names
we’ll never know gave their life’s
work that more might know about the
good news. That’s very inspiring
to me.
8. Now that the
2005 Women of Faith conference season
is over and you’ve had a little
time to rest and reflect, do you have
a favorite memory from Extraordinary
Faith?
One of the things that
stand out about the Extraordinary
Faith year to me is the tremendous
amount of personal stretching that went
on among the team. Each of us carried
some heavy burdens this year, and it
was pretty extraordinary to see how
faith kept us huddled together to help
shoulder the load. Tears were plentiful
and clouds of doubt rolled in at times,
but our hearts “held hands”
and held each other up giving strength
and comfort. I’ll remember this
year for trials more than the triumphs—but
that faith got us through was very extraordinary.
9. Where is your
favorite place to read?
Let me think. I can read
almost anywhere. One of the things I
love about a good book is that it takes
me somewhere else, so if I’m waiting
at the doctor’s office, or on
a flight across country, I love to have
a book by my side. It can make a chair
comfortable, a long wait shorter, or
even a bout with insomnia bearable—so
what is my favorite place? Probably
on vacation! That way I don’t
have to stop reading if I don’t
want to.
10. What kind
of books do you most enjoy reading?
I love good fiction, but
sadly, I don’t read it much anymore.
I tend to pick up a non-fiction book
on a topic I’m interested in.
I often talk myself out of fiction with
the thought that if I read non-fiction
I will learn something. But I don’t
really believe that, so I don’t
know why I tell myself that. I have
learned a lot from good fiction, and
there have been times I’ve not
gleaned a thing from a non-fiction book—so
I guess I’d just like to read
more of everything.
11. Do you have
a favorite that you’ve read lately?
What was it about that book that moved
you?
I just finished Lauren
Winner’s Mudhouse Sabbath,
and enjoyed it tremendously. As a convert
to Christianity, she looks back on her
Jewish roots and evaluates the strengths
of the traditions she grew up with.
She pinpoints many things she feels
Jews have right (even more than Christians)
when it comes to loving God with heart,
soul and mind, not to mention food.
It was a wonderful read that I enjoyed
and I learned something too.
12. Tell us about
your plans for 2006.
I am focusing a good
deal of my time and energy in 2006 on
Fresh Brewed Life. From launching
a new Web site to pursuing a television
show, I’ll be encouraging women
toward the freshest, richest life possible.
While television is the risky part of
this new venture, I definitely feel
it is a great direction for the concept
of living a Fresh Brewed Life. I’ll
still be performing at Women of Faith,
which I’m very excited about,
and will spend time in Los Angeles in
between conferences. I would welcome
the support of prayer and a lot of good
coffee as I launch out more fully into
this unfamiliar territory. Stay tuned!
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